Erasmus Study Mobility at Titu Maiorescu University
María del Carmen Conesa Jiménez from Universidad de Murcia (Spain)
Erasmus Study Mobility at University of La Laguna (Spain)
Before I left home, I asked another student from my university that has already completed a mobility in Tenerife for advice and opinions on her experience and she said, and I quote, “this will be the best period of your life”. I did not believe her. I thought that people always exagerate these statements, that it’s always just a “fun” way to say that they enjoyed this experience. But as I am writing this on the plane ride back home, I admit that I was wrong. The last text message I sent was a goodbye text, to one of my fellow ERASMUS colleagues calling her a part of my “ERASMUS family”. I have met people from different backgrounds, different countries and different cultures. Each and every single one of them has taught me something about them and something about me. I left home with no idea what I want for my future and came back motivated, knowing what I want, knowing myself 2 times better, and happier. I feel like happier is the actual word I want to use for this essay. This experience made me happier: happier with myself, happier with my life choices and happier with the people around me. During this experience I have experienced sadness, despair, but also a lot of laughter and love. While sadness occurred a lot today, leaving the island was never the issue, it was the people. Whether it be platonic or romantic, the relationships I developed here were intense and beautiful and while you can always visit the island again or maybe move here in the future, you could never turn back time to have the exactly same dynamics as right now. Here, I have developed my cooking skills, my relationship skills and also my language levels. I have learned that I can succeed in different environments and wherever I go, I will be ok. Together with my “ERASMUS family” we discovered the island, we even visited other countries like Morocco, we discovered so many beaches that exist here and the culture, which is very different from other places in the world. And I had time to watch hundreds of episodes of a TV show while also being very active socially. Overall, I would like to finish this story with one of my favourite quotes from the show I watched here, Grey’s Anatomy: “the carousel never stops turning”, which is such a good metaphor for how life keeps going forwards whether we want it or not, so the best is enjoy every moment, even the bad ones and tell people how much you love them, because there is a chance you might not have another opportunity to do so.